We all go through many problems every now and then. Our interactions are mixed with many heated up talks. Humans go through intricate interactions with each other, and it is sad that some people attach certain actions just to a single provocation. One example will be enough to make my point clear, as I hope.
I go to school and I realize that my friend is not cheerful that day especially when I am around. I act as if nothing happened and the next day comes, and I realize the same thing. I meet someone else and suddenly that person starts a topic revolving around the friend I mentioned earlier. I make up a very superficial story and try to tell this person why my friend is no longer happy when he meets me. In reality, I am completely aware that his gloominess is due to a series of interactions that happened between us and I am very sure that I am part of the mistake, yet I act blindly, and deal with the matter superficially, and I strive to convince myself by a false story. Over time, I get used to make up superficial stories to convince myself of something which has a clear reality, but I mar it for certain issues.
This deliberate blind-act is shared by many people, and it allows simple mistakes, which could be mended easily, to grow bigger, and be more devastating. We are killing our inner humanity by convincing ourselves by false issues, instead of standing brave against our misdoings and work to get things better. When one calms himself, and ponders deeper on human interactions, he will realize that its complexity is beautiful, and if we work to deal with it deeply as it is, we will lead happy, healthy, and pleasing lives.
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