Saturday, August 15, 2015

An Advice to a neurotic intelligent dude

People with wide imaginations are those who mostly suffer from disappointment. As your expectations get too high, you suffer when you don’t reach what you have been willing to reach. Those who delve deep through themselves to understand what are their real drives and start to suffer from the reality in front of them as it is hard for them to make noticeable changes. Some of them start getting too hypersensitive and every feeling they experience, some might be somatic and some psychological, is put under the microscope of scrutiny. Such people start to feel detached from the external environment, not finding anything stimulating out there, and by that they may develop an obsessive inner feeling, a feeling of trying to know every movement in their body, a hypochondriac nature might arise too. Even as their hair follicles get moved due to sympathetic stimulations coming from the adrenergic nerves, they start to wonder what’s going on with their bodies. It might be due to another underlying belief, which is they think that they have overwhelmed their minds, and things are starting to get awry, as they are thinking on every single thing while others are not as fastidious as they are. As people make them believe that they are over using their brains, they might start to believe that that might have indeed got close to the threshold of sanity starting to step into the realm of the insane.



I think that such people in many cases try to assuage their hypersensitivity and at the same time they don’t want to avoid some of the things they find brain rewarding and attitude developing. They might seek advices here and there and sadly they might get the advice that tells them to avoid reading a lot or thinking a lot. This advice is partially correct but it actually makes them reach another feeling of demise. The ones who present such advices are people who are accustomed to generalizing as they didn’t put restraints on their advice. It should be don’t think a lot in doom, but keep thinking on other things. It should be don’t deluge yourself with negative realists who make you picture the world as it will end after moments and it will be an end in which you will see your intestines hanging in front of you and the rest of your family being crucified by the pipes of your toilet, and the one who might be behind the plot against your family was a brother you never knew. So oversimplified advices are bad in their essence having a beautiful coat. If those naïve advices are taken, our neurotic intelligent dudes might get back thinking that they are put in a hellish dilemma either to choose to stay average and fine or try to get more but sacrifice your sanity. I think the accurate advice to present for such minds is to make them try to realize how immense the world is and that the feeling they are feeling might be due to certain happening in their body, which shouldn’t be negative ones, but it is their hypersensitivity and keen focus that might make them feel every twitch and their dark perspective might make them imagine that this twitch is one alerting him of an impending catastrophe. 


They should be told that continue reading but do realize that what you might agree with today might not appeal you tomorrow and never to think that you have known everything. They should be taught to diminish their hypersensitivity about their impending sickness by engaging in readings that can be technically informative or anthropologically important but not things that might make them question their sanity. They should be praised that their heightened focus is not a complete dark issue but it can be tamed and it will have great rewards and it will allow him to excel further.

I think behaviorists who advice such people to avoid thinking or reading, are providing a very drastic shortcut that might reward our dudes for few days and what will strike them after that might push them to a deeper chasm. 

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